Can't help you getting a MAF as i live in France
1/ yes, you probably damaged your maf using wd40. This product tends to coat things it is used on. You need an alcohol based product.
3 & 4/ once calibrated correctly, you should be getting around 14.7 on idle. If you get 17+ values, you most likely have a boost leak or a dead fuel pump.
Watch for numbers when the car is hot, the ecu adds fuel when cold. If you get something around 12 at idle when hot, it may be the engine heat sensor that need changing (when it fail, the ecu detects the engine to be always cold)
4/ you can hardly detect it by eye, hence why you need to use a product
5/ i think the walbro will cure your problem, most likely.