Go for somthing like a GT30 turbo, a Revhard manifold, and a Tial wastegate. Some people would say the GT30 is too big, it's BS, big turbo's are the greatest thing since sliced bread, even if it dosn't come up on boost till 4,000rpm... (and I'm not saying it comes up that late) the only time your going to notice it is accelerating in first gear. Bellow 4,000rpm you can boil the tires 'all motor' in first... so boost really dosn't do you any good. Above that number every time you shift you keep the turbo spun up and you don't even have to worry about it anymore. The bigger turbo will give you lower EGT's, they are more reliable, they flow a lot more, and they have "bling factor"
I'd go with somthing your not going to grow out of, and if you have a built motor there is no reason to sell yourself short and go with a T3/T4.
As for the wastegate, simply put deltagates suck, the Tial is a work of art and it fits the deltagate flange (which is the flange that's molded onto the Revhard manifold).
RevHard is the only company making turbo KA manifolds, but the guys at Unstable hybrids are in the final stages of doing a prototype KA manifold, so I'd give them a call and see what they've got as well.
Hope that helps a bit,
Paul