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Thu Jul 29, 2004 8:42 am
Here are some of my unique macking tips, which may be useful to you guys, girls just read and follow with me.
When about to ask a desirable lady for a date, there are some useful things to bear in mind.
Always suggest in a positive way what would be great to do.
SUGGESTING IN A POSITIVE WAY:
By doing this, you always suggest, the things you want to do. The reason being is that it keeps your mind focused, on the desirable outcome. Also it plants the right seed in her mind. Leaving no room for doubt! If visa versa you suggest things in a negative way, you don't appear confident, if you are already shy in, you only reinforce the negatives, therefore only doing the same in her own mind. If you don't sound convincing enough why should she? Being positive in your own mind, you do not only improve your own positive chances. You also give her a reason to more than likely agree with your idea.Example:
YOU: It would be lovely to go here next weekend, or after work. This is something we will both really enjoy and give us a chance to spend more time together.
HER: That really sounds like a lovely idea, when do you want to meet up?
YOU: Maybe Friday, or Saturday night. I need your number, in order to call you to make proper arrangements in case anything happens nearer the time.
Next tip
NEVER ASK FOR HER NUMBER UP FRONT: why would you put off something that could happen tonight for another date?
When asking for a date, never ask her can I have your number.
The reason is that, when you do ask her. You give her the option of always saying NO. Although she can always say it diplomatically you are still given her the power of calling all the shots. It gives you the feeling, of like when you’re pleading for something or like you need a favor! She always has the power to either say YES, or NO. Visa Versa, when you say for example: In order for us to get together sometime, (after you have already suggested good things to do together, in building rapport etc). In order to sort something out. I really do need your NUMBER, so that I can always CONTACT YOU, when I have more information on this. (Whatever you are suggesting to her) alternatively: In case a sudden change of plan, I only feel it is only fair to keep you updated. By doing it this way, you are not ASKING HER for her number. YOU are hereby suggesting it to her. So she is more likely to say YES.
These two methods have worked for me in the past.
techno:)