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im two techno
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Here are some of my unique macking tips, which may be useful to you guys, girls just read and follow with me.

When about to ask a desirable lady for a date, there are some useful things to bear in mind.

Always suggest in a positive way what would be great to do.

SUGGESTING IN A POSITIVE WAY:

By doing this, you always suggest, the things you want to do. The reason being is that it keeps your mind focused, on the desirable outcome. Also it plants the right seed in her mind. Leaving no room for doubt! If visa versa you suggest things in a negative way, you don't appear confident, if you are already shy in, you only reinforce the negatives, therefore only doing the same in her own mind. If you don't sound convincing enough why should she? Being positive in your own mind, you do not only improve your own positive chances. You also give her a reason to more than likely agree with your idea.Example:

YOU: It would be lovely to go here next weekend, or after work. This is something we will both really enjoy and give us a chance to spend more time together.

HER: That really sounds like a lovely idea, when do you want to meet up?

YOU: Maybe Friday, or Saturday night. I need your number, in order to call you to make proper arrangements in case anything happens nearer the time.

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NEVER ASK FOR HER NUMBER UP FRONT: why would you put off something that could happen tonight for another date?

When asking for a date, never ask her can I have your number.

The reason is that, when you do ask her. You give her the option of always saying NO. Although she can always say it diplomatically you are still given her the power of calling all the shots. It gives you the feeling, of like when you’re pleading for something or like you need a favor! She always has the power to either say YES, or NO. Visa Versa, when you say for example: In order for us to get together sometime, (after you have already suggested good things to do together, in building rapport etc). In order to sort something out. I really do need your NUMBER, so that I can always CONTACT YOU, when I have more information on this. (Whatever you are suggesting to her) alternatively: In case a sudden change of plan, I only feel it is only fair to keep you updated. By doing it this way, you are not ASKING HER for her number. YOU are hereby suggesting it to her. So she is more likely to say YES.

These two methods have worked for me in the past.

techno:)


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good tip.. I use this too

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I like your use of sophisitcated vocabulary and verbage, adds a sense of class to your conversation...

"I admire you fashionable evening atire. Would you care to spend an evening out with me?"

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Daayum baby you're hawt!!

....has never worked for me:pface

I find that being calm and confident (almost ****y) works very nicely.

edit: wtf I thought **** was taken off the block filters

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Was... :(

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I dont even wanna know why it makes u sad seva.......

:-D

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cool tips :)

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Confidence... i know when u see guys do it your like "What a d!ck.." but girls eat that **** up. Worked for me... im only 18 and im dating a 21 year old girl i met at work... ill get a pic of me and her together and put it up in the hottest women thread :)

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Yeah being able to show your confidence always impresses the ladies, just don't over do it. I always throw a little bit of meaness in, works for me.

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You can always use The Reversal:

Act like you cant stand her, then she'll get confused and eagerly try to get your approval and attention. Works only on girls with self-esteem problems.

Problem is, if you honestly cant stand her, you cant get rid of her.

-Jesda

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Jesda wrote:You can always use The Reversal:

Act like you cant stand her, then she'll get confused and eagerly try to get your approval and attention. Works only on girls with self-esteem problems.

Problem is, if you honestly cant stand her, you cant get rid of her.

-Jesda


Oh so true.

I've been trying for about a week (unsuccessfully) to get rid of my ****-buddy who got a little too serious for my liking. Needless to say its not working too well.

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Umm... so if the girl cries on the phone when you tell her you got a ticket, so you can't see her before you go on vacation, does that mean she's manwhipped?

edit: And if said day where she cries on the phone is exactly 3 weeks since the day you met her, does that mean something different?

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HER: That really sounds like a lovely idea, when do you want to meet up?

YOU: Maybe Friday, or Saturday night. I need your number, in order to call you to make proper arrangements in case anything happens nearer the time.

[/quote]the only thing i would change is instead of saying "maybe friday or saturday night" make sure you already have a day.

say "saturday night" or say "friday night" but don't do the maybe this or maybe that. still makes you sound less confident and not in control (these are some things i have noticed) plus, when she goes to make or rearange plans around it, there is no doubt so she cant' come up with the excuse when you call her friday saying "why don't we do it saturday"

other than that good stuff,


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