Glad your mileage is picking up. Regarding your numbers, you're spending over twice as much time in EV mode as I am. I only get about 16% EV miles, probably because most of my miles are Interstate. When I'm on rural roads at 50 mph and below, I'll get 35-40% EV miles like you show.
I've done the same calculation of gas vs. EV MPG (Benefit of Hybrid Engine) that you've done, but I think it's a bit inaccurate. Remember that our EV miles on the M-hybrid are all at relatively "low-load" in terms of gas consumption, i.e., we're usually coasting or at very light throttle inputs; otherwise, the gas engine will kick-in. If we were running on gas exclusively, our consumption under those conditions would also be light. So I don't think it's possible to really compare the EV vs. non-EV-mode gas consumption directly. If you take those light-load conditions into account on a gas-only motor, I think its MPG would be higher than what we can calculate directly. Even though your 17 MPG estimate for a gas-only M35 is pretty accurate, I think it may be more coincidence than actuality.
I am surprised at the difference between your dashboard vs. touch screen display MPGs. According to the manual they're supposed to be the same, differing only by the time each is updated. Strange. However, the difference between your indicated vs actual MPG is almost exactly the same as mine -- the computer always reads between 4-10% high, and I've found that to be pretty-much the case on all my other cars as well. I think all the auto manufacturers want their display errors to be in favor of better MPG.
My mileage numbers are always the actuals based on fill-up gallons; I put the values into the "Road Trip" iPhone app at each fill-up, and then export it to a spreadsheet, along with my indicated MPG and the calculated % error. So I know that my indicated MPG is always about 7% higher than what I'm actually getting. i don't record my average speed on each fill-up, but it's usually in the 42 MPH range as best I can recall, again indicative of my predominately Interstate miles & speed.
My gas gauge seems very well calibrated, each quarter-tank is almost exactly 4 gals, so when I get down to empty, I'm down 16 gals and have about 1.8 gals left "in reserve". I typically go between 400-475 miles on a tank, and wait for the reserve light to go on before refueling, which normally happens with 75 miles indicated as remaining.
And that's another minor gripe I have -- when the Miles Remaining hits 42 miles, the display changes from 42 to ****. WTH!! I know that it does it now, so I can anticipate it, but it's kinda worrisome when you drop below 42 miles remaining and you really have no idea what your remaining range is. I just can't understand some of the engineering decisions that Infiiniti made on this car's software & ergonomics. Japanese vs. German engineering thought is very different, and I have to say that I prefer the German decisions. BMW & Mercedes will let you input addresses, link Bluetooth devices, etc., while in motion as you happily drive off the road. The Japanese restrict you from these entries, which is a real PITA, particularly when you have a passenger onboard who can safely enter that information.
Oh well, at least they put the gas cap on the proper side of the car, unlike most Japanese autos…. (The "proper" side being the one facing away from traffic if you have to pull over on the right shoulder when you run out of gas. And have you ever noticed that gas gauges show which side of the car the gas cap is on by a little triangle pointer at the top of the gas gauge? I only noticed that myself a few years ago, maybe I'm just slow.)
BMW Alpina B7 huh? Those are quite rare, I've never seen one, and we have quite a few nice cars on Atlanta roads. And yeah, that's definitely a race that's your's to lose.

