Puck,
We generally try to avoid turning our super high traffic site into a portal for others, even if they are our brother sites, whom we like and respect.
You will find that we occaisionally leave some links up, that others would delete right away.And generally in the meets section,we will leave links up, regardless what site they link to,.. to promote unity in the Nissan/Infiniti community.Even there though, copy/paste of location, time and directions of a meet, is MUCH better netiquette IMO than simply linking.
But... when the first few posts of a new member all link to other forums..... well this is known as fishing,.. we dont do it.. and we hope others have enough class , to return the favor and refrain from it as well.
Fred..
PS: Chances are, you are just new to message forums and their netiquette and were just enjoying the tools this medium gives us all.If your posts fit a pattern, I instructed my Moderators to act on, than, that is sometimes just the way life goes.. no hard feelings.