Marenta wrote:My first car was a 77 Ford LTD and then I moved to an 85 Ford LTD II after a few months. So, I can understand. But, my concern is that I'd like to teach him the value of the car.. and I know he's not going to WANT to beat the car up, but he's going to put it through the wringer. So, I don't want to get him a great car, but I guess I just want to have faith that he will understand the importance of taking care of his car?
I share your values on autos (hell, we all do, thats why we're here or at least what drew us here in the first place!) but Will may not. At least, not yet. In my opinion, if you want to teach him the value and importance of a car,
his car, I suggest having him pay for
at least half of the vehicle and all of the insurance and teach him proper maintenance (or at least let him pay for proper maintenance, then he'll WANT to work on his own car to save money). If he can't afford it up front because he doesn't have a job yet, make him get one first, then have him pay you back with a good chunk of cash or check payable to the Bank of Mom and Dad for his car payment and insurance. This way, he'll have ownership and his own effort, time, and money into the car. That's what my parents did to me. I also learned how to use checks and a check book (booya, another life lesson for him!)
In regards to respecting it and taking care of it like the machine it is and not the appliance most people treat them now-a-days, show him those photos on Google of cars with gummed up oil in their engines, dark transmission fluid, beat up brake rotors from not changing pads, and corded tires (hell, show him pics from my FB page for the last two) etc so he understands the reason and importance behind usual maintenance.
He doesn't need a passion for his car, but he should learn how to respect it and how to treat it from you and Bart.