Go with the AMS rebuild kit. Its awesome and has just about everything you need. You don't need the oil squirters... plenty of SOHC, including me run with out them and have had no problems. Fuel pump is a must... don't wan't that expensive engine blowing up over a 90.00 fuel pump upgrade. Engine managment: You should def. go with a tuned ECU. You can tune them yourself... but its not for beginners. You can also go through JWT and have your ecu tuned. For fuel injectos, Get a set of mazda rx-7 fuel injectors. You can use VVV and they are a direct drop in the stock fuel rail.
1989-91 RX-7 195500-2010 Saturated 460cc Red Top 1989-91 RX-7 195500-2020 Saturated 550cc Purple Top
You can use the stock maf for up to 250ish HP but since your shooting higher.. you will probably want to upgrade to the z32 maf. The safcII, tuned ecu, and JWT ecu can be programmed to run either maf. (there are more maf's to use.. i just don't know them off the top of my head)
Check out
http://www.eccs.hybridka.com for more info on tuning your own ecu. Good luck with the project.