I've run OEM filters, K&N, and Purolator... To me, I think Purolator didn't work well, I noticed a drop in mpg's - it felt as if it wasn't free flowing...
The OEM filter worked great due to the tight suction it had while in the air box. the rubber seal around the filter frame is thicker than others. I use an OEM filter when getting my car smogged or when I wash the K&N...
The K&N drop in works well...there is a noticeable difference when I switch from the OEM to the K&N. I see the difference when my car is dynoed. whether it's a little hp bump compared to OEM, it's still adds to the total... I prefer the K&N due to the fact of being able to use it longer (of course washing it when necessary)...One K&N is more cost effective in the long run than having to buy many OEM filters -- even though I keep one OEM in storage for my smog testing...
As far as the MAF sensor being damaged, I believe it will happen to those that use too much re-oiling or don't dry the K&N thoroughly after washing... there is also a spray cleaner to use on the MAF sensors...using this is beneficial.
I've run K&N air filters in several of my cars and had no issues with the MAF sensors. In fact, in my E350, Mercedes requires TWO long air filters in the E class - still no issues there when using K&N. And dealers never gave me issues when seeing I had K&N filters
To each his own...hopefully this helps. I currently have approx 139K miles on my 06 M35 and it runs good...