Amen brad, you've seen the light
Jim Wolf most certainly doesn't take a car, put on the exact mods that you have, and then send you the program. They have a list of maps that are for cars similar to yours that they use. This is a problem for the many reasons Brad (unfrgivn) listed above.
That said, people should learn to tune cars, it's not really that hard at all. Hell, two years ago I knew close to 0 about tuning cars, now I'm able to jump blind into a standalone ECU install and get a car running within a few days, and running well after a few more days street tuning, or a few hours on the dyno.
~matt