I can't answer all your questions just a couple:
ECU:-No loss of torque-Need to be more carfefull about staying with premium only-Keep cooling system in top shape as (IAW Q45tech) some safety reserve is taken out- durabilty problems seem nil, many Q owners have put a lot of miles on their car with teh ECU and no ill effects even with frequent use of max power
TCU:
-I am not sure how significant the TCU would be on a 94 as you have first gear anway as you mentioned.It's suppsoed to make shifts firmer/quicker but I am not sure how significant that effect is as I have trouble feeling it, the shift pointsd also seem to be affected only minutely (if at all) from my experience with Q's w/ and w/o TCU.
If I had a 94 I woudl skip the TCU and just get the ECU (plus a 4.11/4.08 rear diff).
Fred...
