Frsport.com is a good site to browse wheels, you can browse by size,width, offset, lug pattern, and also you can start all this browsing by selecting to shop by "brands" at the top right of the homepage...... On most weds or JDM wheels they even tell you the size of the lips... But as far as the weights, good luck bro...... Occasionally they list how much certain lines of wheels weigh, but mainly the lighter racing type wheels.... Haven't noticed any weights on VIP wheels unfortunately.... I have never called, but maybe if you narrow down your handful of favorites after browsing the hundreds of sick wheels and figure out what offset and so forth you desire , you could call and ask the what the weights of the wheels are so you can find out how much shipping will cost to where you live with various shipping companies like UPS vs. FedEx , ect.