First, since it all leaked out and that has not been addressed, how will refilling help on the long term?
Second, if you cannot identify the correct valve, doesn't that give you some pause?
Third, since it has been exposed to the atmosphere for 6 months, that should tell you an evacuation and dryer replacement are required. How will you know the correct charge for the refrigerant and lubricant otherwise?
Finally, if you are not willing to replace the whole system after your experiments, I really recommend you take it to a professional AC technician and address the loss and seal problems before attempting a recharge. I really think you are in way over your head and will do more harm than good, and increase your maintenance expense long term and shorten your car's AC life short term.
Anyway, posts like this concerning operational issues belong in the Infiniti Online Mechanic Forum, so you may try a search there. But please do some research before attempting shade tree repairs. Another good source for general fixes is
http://www.fuzzcats.com/J30/
Do get the FSM and TSB also.