Welcome to our humble little posse... Normally I dont get to reply first but I get to this time... YAY!!!
1. NO problem.. The transmission with good maintenace can go to 200k... transmission cooler is a MUST... You cannot do cheap rebuilds, must go with factory reman or a high quality rebuild like level 10..
2. Again depends on maintenance.. IF nothing is done it usually can make it to 150k... it doesnt require much maintenance at that, just keep the refrigerant and oil fresh.....
3. Yes.... Call Joe at infiniti of scottsdale.. 1888-216-5328... Tell him your from NICO and know Wes

I dont know how they compare to other parts but they're cheap compared to dealer prices... I only buy my stuff form joe but there are a few other sponsors that sell OEM parts at the same discount..... Even iwth shipping its very cheap, and he uses DHL so its quick too.....
4. Youll want TCS if you want to use it in the winter......
5. This is a never ending debate between the G50 (90-96) and Y33 (97-01)...... It all depends what you want.... The G50 is the BEST of hte Q45, but youll need to drop some cash to make them perfect.. If you go with the 90-93, you MUST read up on teh chain guides.....
Tell you what, go to our infinit articles section or goto
http://www.Q45.org (my/Jesda's site), and look at the buying advice... That will give you EVERYTHING you need to know about the G50 Q...
The Y33 is more reliable but less thrilling, less poewrful..... If your more concerned about classy transportation, then go with the Y33, if you want a drivers car, get hte G50... They are both reliable but the G50 offers more for performacne and handling.....