Please allow me to pontificate at length, because I am finding this thread frustrating to read ... and I am going to change the topic a bit (not totally off-topic from the original post)....You know what, guys? America could learn from some of the other "backward" countries about women's rights ... (of course, with some exceptions).
Here is an interesting point about women rights in "backward" Islamic nations. Three Islamic countries - Pakistan, Bangladesh, and (to a lesser Islamic degree) Turkey - have had strong women leaders running the country. Voted into office, by the way - by popular demand and popular elections. If women are down-trodden and second-class citizens, with no rights, in Islamic/Muslim countries, how could this possibly be true?!?
We cannot say the same in the US now, can we? Have we ever had a woman President? Only recently did we find ourselves with our first woman Speaker. (Sidebar: Well, I don't like her, but not because she is a woman - I just happen to dislike her left-wing politics! )
Does anyone know about Queen Noor of Jordan? Yes, she was born and brought up in the U.S., and married the King of Jordan:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Queen_Noor. She is well-known (except in the US, I guess) for her tireless efforts working on behalf of the United Nations ... while she was still reigning Queen of Jordan - all blessed by King Hussein!
Does she strike you as a person who would consider herself subjugated and mistreated in an Islamic country because she is a woman?
Closer to home for me (and less privileged than Queen Noor ), since I have the personal knowledge to talk about these women:
1. My wife's aunt, Nasreen Jalil, is currently the Assistant Mayor of Karachi, the largest city in Pakistan:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nasreen_Jalil. More than forty years ago, she earned her Commercial Pilot's License in 1966 and taught flying at the Hong Kong Aero Club. She has been a Senator in the National Assembly (Pakistan's equivalent of the U.S. Senate) and was Chairperson on the Committee on Human Rights.
Does she strike you as a person who would consider herself subjugated and mistreated in an Islamic country because she is a woman?
2. My mother-in-law, Yasmeen Lari, was the first woman architect in Pakistan:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yasmeen_Lari, was the President of the Institute of Architects in Pakistan at one time, has lectured at MIT, Harvard and other colleges in the US, UK and Japan (among other countries). She has achieved international acknowledgment for her work in Pakistan, and recently received the highest Civilian award in Pakistan for her tireless work - at an age of 67 or 68 - in the earthquake devastated areas in Northern Pakistan marshaling resources to build thousands of homes for families who lost everything.
Does she strike you as a person who would consider herself subjugated and mistreated in an Islamic country because she is a woman?
3. My sister, Quatrina Hosain, is a pre-eminent journalist in the television news industry in Pakistan. Currently, she is the CCO (Chief Content Officer) and Nightly News Anchor for one of the new television stations in the country. While in another job at another station (government-run television station), she had a program where she interviewed many prominent political figures, including Condoleeza Rice:
http://www.state.gov/secretary/rm/2005/43604.htm and Richard Armitage:
http://www.state.gov/s/d/forme...3.htm, among others. She has also been the Foreign Editor for the largest English newspaper in Pakistan and is well-known in the country.
Does she strike you as a person who would consider herself subjugated and mistreated in an Islamic country because she is a woman?
What I find distressing are the generalizations that are thrown about so easily - with little knowledge to make such sweeping statements. We see women with covered heads, or burkhas and immediately assume that they must be treated like chattel in these nations! And, that their rights must lower than those of dogs ... huhn?!?
Why?
It is not true (of course, there are exceptions)! It is a tradition - by custom and religion, and, more often than not, certainly among the educated women in most Islamic countries who wear them, it is usually by choice and custom - not because some man has forced it on them!
This unfortunate image has become engrained and tossed about too readily - is it because that is the stereotype portrayed in the media? Or old movies or something? That image is often wrong, and it is changing. And, it is changing even in the most conservative Islamic nations too (Saudi Arabia is probably the canonical example) - albeit slower than many people might like.
Here is an example:
http://www.newsweek.com/id/33637 of a Muslim nation (Egypt) that finds itself on "the opposite side", with a story that has parallels in similar stories in France, UK and the US. The Egyptian government is trying to eliminate the burkha in certain places and yet, there are women who want to wear it ... weird, imho, but true! And, while I would never consider the veil as something that Muslim women have to wear, I find myself agreeing with the women in this story - they have the right to choose it, if they truly want to!
We talk about the backward-ness of the Middle East Muslim nations, and don't realize that countries like the United Arab Emirates have beaches where bikini-clad women are present () in droves. In an Islamic country?!? Ruled by a Shaikh?!? ZOMG!
Sure, there are some folks - men and women - who are not happy by the presence of bikini-clad women on those beaches, but, is that really surprising? Don't we have groups in this country where the women would be horrified to wear a bikini publicly? No? I can name a few groups and places if you want!
All countries have their people on both sides of an issue!
And, yes, sure, abso-effing-lutely, there are still problems with the treatment of women in certain parts of many Islamic nations - particularly in the rural countryside - but, there are many intelligent, educated men and women in all of them who are working hard to make a change for the better. And making tremendous progress - step by step! But, you rarely hear about that in the mainstream media.
Is this any different from how it was in the U.S. relatively not too long ago? When did women get the right to vote here, by the way ?
There are folks, btw, who seem to think that Islam states the rights of women to be lower than those of men. That is inaccurate, by the way, and if you want, I can point you to the correct references for that. The problem is that, as usual, people (usually men, of course) in many of those countries chose to interpret matter unfairly towards women. In extreme situations, like the Taliban "ideals" pushed in Afghanistan, this was truly a challenge for educated women. My family and other women in Pakistan were horrified at what was going on in Afghanistan during the Taliban ... reign, for lack of a better word.
So, all I can say is: please study, research, and educate yourself about what is happening in those so-called "backward" countries before pontificating at large. For those of us who have lived there, it is annoying, and frustrating, to hear these generalizations.
Having lived here in the U.S. as long as I have (longer than some of you have been alive, by the way!), I consider myself completely American. But, sometimes, I find the lack of knowledge beyond our borders, and yet, the complete ease with which we consider ourselves the experts on everything - and thereby justify our meddling because "we know better" - very, very sad!
Sometimes, I want to shake people into thinking properly, more globally, more with their own minds than what has been indoctrinated by media and their filtered images!...To get back to the topic a bit - well, sorta :
Yes, Iraqi women may have been "safer" under Saddam than now (of course, the Kurdish women and girls - among others - who were gassed by Saddam's armies might differ strongly ... if they were alive to do so!).
That is not because women were more protected per se, but because the general crime rate in that country was simply far lower at the time. The war has caused the police forces in Iraq to be stretched too thin to be an effective force to deal with the law and order problems ... hence, the criminal element (exists in any country) find themselves freer to commit all crimes. Not just those against women.
Will this change? I hope so. Once, the internal infrastructure of the country recovers from the battles and war mentality, then it will, I sincerely hope, find itself heading back to normalcy. This will reduce all crime too, not just the crimes against women.
Is this situation in Iraq the U.S.'s "fault"? That is a stretch ... I have to say no! The consequences of war are always hurtful to the average person who is in the war zone - during the skirmish, and in the aftermath.
Yeah, I truly wish we had not gone in at all - our push for this was flawed, IMHO. But, we did it, for better or worse and not because we wanted to hurt Iraqi women. A sad side-effect outcome.
So, now, I truly do hope that we can, somehow, make it work out in that country for the average person. If not, then the effort will have been in vain.
Thanks for listening to me go on too long!
Z