Welcome. Congrats on the car.
I just installed this on my 2013M56xS. It has a slightly deeper sound, a little louder. But it's definitely still tame and responsible. It's not on the level of a Hemi volume, etc. Even with both old mufflers off when i was installing, I started my car and it wasn't as loud as you might expect.
I got my set here:
http://www.ebay.com/itm/Infiniti-M37-M5 ... 2749.l2649
$600 and free shipping, you won't find it cheaper
That will save you some money. They will take $600 even if you contact them and make them an offer. I literally bought this last week and installed the next day. The install should be relatively easy too. I had issues with some rusted bolts, as mentioned in a recent thread. Otherwise it would have been simple.
I had to improvise to get them level, had to raise the rubber part of one of the hangers, but you'll figure that out if you can't get them level. Good luck.