Speaking from experience, I know it sucks. I just got my car running again after 3 weeks of fixing a bent valve from bad timing problem.
The best thing to do is to get another used motor. They're not too expensive because people are always swaping in the SR20 engine and want to get rid of the KA. I sold a KA24E with alternator, pwr steering, manifolds, injectors, and other stuff for $125 not too long ago (too bad I didn't have it when I needed it).
While the new (used) motor is out, throw on your new timing stuff and whatever other new things you have from your current motor.
If you need gaskets or anything, check out HM Performance, I got what I needed from them shipped for less than the lowest ebay prices before shipping.
http://shop.store.yahoo.com/hm-performance/
Also, if you decide to try to salvage the existing motor, you're gonna need valves that aren't bent. You can't just lap bent valves, they're still bent and won't travel through the guide properly. Make sure you lap the new valves though if you are salvaging your current engine (this ensures a good seal for both the head and valve surfaces).
Again, I suggest going with another full running engine with your new parts installed on it. It's not nearly as hard to do as rebuilding your current engine.
Also, make sure you crank by hand first (with the neg batt cable removed and all that good stuff). Do this for at least 4 revolutions to make sure that none of the valves and pistons aren't going to interfere.
Good luck and let me know if I can answer any other questions,
Matt