sdtouge wrote:so it doesnt sound like the wastegate opens till about 5-6k (no tach),
If your wastegate wasn't opening until 5-6K, You'ld probably have a bunch of parts sitting in your oil pan. If boost rises to 6 psi and hold, the wastegate is doing its job. Wastegate problems might be if it didn't hold boost, allowed too much boost, or didn't make enough boost.
Manifold pressure probably won't tell you too much if there is a leak in your I/C pipes. Unless the manifold itself is leaking, the pressure/vacuum will be fairly normal.
I'd say start by checking, double checking and then triple checking for leaks. I say check them many times, because they can easily be overlooked. Check your coupliers carefully. They can look like they are on correctly but be leaking quite a bit.
BTW, was this set-up running correctly at anytime before? Better still, did you have the fuell system up and running before adding the turbo?