I looked through all my manuals for the specs on RB20DET head and could not find them either. Looks like you best bet is to go with the RB25DE specs. The RB20DET and RB25DE heads very simular.
You could use a thicker head gasket. That would be a cheap fix. For a thicker headgasket, try asking these guys,
http://www.raceeng.com/default.aspx
They carry a large stock of Cometic head gaskets in various thickness's.
Modified by Stealth-Z at 7:45 AM 11/1/2006