EdBwoy wrote:made of unobtanium
Ha! Yeah, I'm going to have to put that one in my vocabulary.
Ditto on not doing any more of the insurance company's leg work. The most you should need is confirmation that the damage exists to the parts, and that it would have reasonably been caused by the accident.
I guess the question becomes, does the other driver's insurance totaling your car immediately trigger a payout by your agreed value insurance to get you to the $13K? If not, you may still be in the driver's seat on getting quotes for them, depending on how that policy is written. I suspect they have a better way of dealing with this situation than a standard car insurance company.