I've just come to the realization that girls are insane!!!!! I love em but they're crazy!! Girls like to play around with guys heads too much, and they always try to dig money out of me. The most recent girl incident I've had was with this one girl I've been friends with for a while now. She seemed to be showing some interest in me and talked to me pretty frequently. I finally decided to ask her out and she said yes, I set up the whole thing and planned it all out. We set the date for a friday or something like that, so then on friday night I call her up. And nobodies home... I call her cell and she tells me that she went out with her friends, and that we'll go out the next day. I was pissed but i let it slide, next day I call her and she picks up and says, that she's kinda busy today but I could stop by. So I stop by for a while and we chat it up... Everything going smoothly and then all of a sudden, someones at the door. She goes and answers it and its her ****ing boyfriend!!!! WTF is that!!!! The guy is like "who is this?" and she says its just one of my friends.
Crap like this happens to me, with every girl I deal with.
So I've come to the conclusion to take a break from girls for a while and concentrate on my car and school work. My faithfull car never deceives me. She has beauty and brawn all rolled up into one nicely wrapped package.
I may be thinking irrational right now though..... I'll see if I stick by my decision by next week.
I'm taking a brake from girls for a while and concentrating on my car!!
Re: I'm taking a brake from girls for a while and concentrating on my car!!
SkillaSX wrote:I've just come to the realization that girls are insane!!!!! I love em but they're crazy!! Girls like to play around with guys heads too much, and they always try to dig money out of me. The most recent girl incident I've had was with this one girl I've been friends with for a while now. She seemed to be showing some interest in me and talked to me pretty frequently. I finally decided to ask her out and she said yes, I set up the whole thing and planned it all out. We set the date for a friday or something like that, so then on friday night I call her up. And nobodies home... I call her cell and she tells me that she went out with her friends, and that we'll go out the next day. I was pissed but i let it slide, next day I call her and she picks up and says, that she's kinda busy today but I could stop by. So I stop by for a while and we chat it up... Everything going smoothly and then all of a sudden, someones at the door. She goes and answers it and its her ****ing boyfriend!!!! WTF is that!!!! The guy is like "who is this?" and she says its just one of my friends.
Crap like this happens to me, with every girl I deal with.
So I've come to the conclusion to take a break from girls for a while and concentrate on my car and school work. My faithfull car never deceives me. She has beauty and brawn all rolled up into one nicely wrapped package.
I may be thinking irrational right now though..... I'll see if I stick by my decision by next week.
you know what the worst is *checking over shoulder* when they NEVER leave you alone...
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welcome to the game. you have many quarters so dont despair. your only weapons are charm and alcohol. condoms help but thats a different level. You havent learned yet that your falling into the friend trap. (man organ in jar in case of emergency) you have many options but avoid losing your cool. You will only satisfy her more and she is now playing you. instead if you really like her pretend your hurt (OSCAR PERFORMANCE) and she will make it up to you!!!!!! last bit eliminate distractions
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just be rude to them... works every time
act like it's you they want...... not them that you want.... they like confidence and as far as that b/f **** goes... I would have said something like "WHO'S THIS GUY?!?!" "YOU SAID WE WERE GONNA GO OUT?!?!"
I would have gotten even with her *** for sure
/vindictive
EDIT: I may even throw something in like "WTF!! YOU DIDN'T TELL ME ABOUT HIM THE OTHER NIGHT WHEN WE WERE ALONE IN THAT SPECIAL PLACE!!"
act like it's you they want...... not them that you want.... they like confidence and as far as that b/f **** goes... I would have said something like "WHO'S THIS GUY?!?!" "YOU SAID WE WERE GONNA GO OUT?!?!"
I would have gotten even with her *** for sure
/vindictive
EDIT: I may even throw something in like "WTF!! YOU DIDN'T TELL ME ABOUT HIM THE OTHER NIGHT WHEN WE WERE ALONE IN THAT SPECIAL PLACE!!"
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Re: Re: I'm taking a brake from girls for a while and concentrating on my car!!
IvoryJ30t wrote:you know what the worst is *checking over shoulder* when they NEVER leave you alone...
Yeah, I 've gone throught that too...... When the girl finally got the picture that I didn't want her (took a long *** time). She went around spreading roomers about me, to every girl I know (which is alot).
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Phax "]There's always the other option. Grab as many of them as you can, and simply get rid of the ones who suck."
I dunno, I think there are more guys who want to KEEP the girls who do suc....er.. never mind. Bear in mind, women think similarly about us guys. Many girls believe guys think about only sex and cars. I disagree with that, of course. Many of us think about sex in cars too. I agree girls can be frustrating, and some can be rude, (like the one you mentioned), but I think they are well worth the frustration and mind games.Don't give up.
I dunno, I think there are more guys who want to KEEP the girls who do suc....er.. never mind. Bear in mind, women think similarly about us guys. Many girls believe guys think about only sex and cars. I disagree with that, of course. Many of us think about sex in cars too. I agree girls can be frustrating, and some can be rude, (like the one you mentioned), but I think they are well worth the frustration and mind games.Don't give up.
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Techno’s guide to having a one night stand!
Lets all face it guys one night stands are the shiznik! Who needs all the BS that comes afterwards here are a few tips from me.
When should you approach her?
There is a very specific moment that lasts for only a few minutes that determines whether you will be able to pick her up or not. You should make your move on the third eye-contact you two make!No more. No less.Anything before that will be premature:0 eye contacts made: "Let me check you out while you introduce yourself, buster."1 eye contact made: "I have checked you out and am forming an opinion about you."2 eye contacts made: "I am considering you as potential playmate" This is when you move in:3 eye contacts made: "I am inviting you to come over and talk to me, act on it now!" Anything after that will make you look less confident:4 eye contacts made: "I am wondering why you didn't respond to her invitation, do you not like her?"5 eye contacts made: "Are you keeping me as your back up plan?"6 eye contacts made: "If you are shy, you are not worth my time."7 eye contacts made: "Are you slow or what? Geez"8 eye contacts made: "What a looser! We are all talking about you at our table."9 eye contacts made: "Ha! And to think I was going to give it to him tonight…" Yes, it takes guts to be able to react to the third time she checks you out. But if you do go there and introduce yourself, you will find that talking to her and seducing her will be a lot easier than any other time. This is the moment when she is most receptive to you. Your only effort will be to walk up to her, everything else will work out as planned. If, you wait till the sixth eye contact, you will have to spend some time convincing her that you are the lover she has been looking for...not an easy task.:thinker
Lets all face it guys one night stands are the shiznik! Who needs all the BS that comes afterwards here are a few tips from me.
When should you approach her?
There is a very specific moment that lasts for only a few minutes that determines whether you will be able to pick her up or not. You should make your move on the third eye-contact you two make!No more. No less.Anything before that will be premature:0 eye contacts made: "Let me check you out while you introduce yourself, buster."1 eye contact made: "I have checked you out and am forming an opinion about you."2 eye contacts made: "I am considering you as potential playmate" This is when you move in:3 eye contacts made: "I am inviting you to come over and talk to me, act on it now!" Anything after that will make you look less confident:4 eye contacts made: "I am wondering why you didn't respond to her invitation, do you not like her?"5 eye contacts made: "Are you keeping me as your back up plan?"6 eye contacts made: "If you are shy, you are not worth my time."7 eye contacts made: "Are you slow or what? Geez"8 eye contacts made: "What a looser! We are all talking about you at our table."9 eye contacts made: "Ha! And to think I was going to give it to him tonight…" Yes, it takes guts to be able to react to the third time she checks you out. But if you do go there and introduce yourself, you will find that talking to her and seducing her will be a lot easier than any other time. This is the moment when she is most receptive to you. Your only effort will be to walk up to her, everything else will work out as planned. If, you wait till the sixth eye contact, you will have to spend some time convincing her that you are the lover she has been looking for...not an easy task.:thinker
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Whispering Techniques
Sorry to thread jack but its seams like you guys need a little help from a pro!
If body language communicates 90% of what is said during courting, then talking to them in their ear (or whispering) should be responsible for about 50% of that. The ear is a very erogenous zone.
AND WOMEN LOVE IT WHEN THEY ARE WHISPERED TO.
Everyone does. If a below average chick says something remotely sexy in your ear, you will be way more turned on than if she said it to you face to face. The same goes for women. So if the bar is loud (and you should look for above average loudness bars) you have every right to use this technique: she won’t ask you "why are you whispering in my ear" because she knows it's loud.When you start talking to her, immediately reach for getting your lips around 9 inches or so from her ear. When if she is responding by letting you talk to her in that manner, try to get closer and closer as the dialog develops. If she isn't backing away every time you are responding to something you are saying, and if she keeps asking you questions or is trying to make conversation, you know you are good and can go on with this method. Within five minutes you should be talking to her IN her ear, as your lips should be almost touching her ear. While you are carrying out the whisper technique, you should be also working on the third seduction method called. “The boob touch”
Sorry to thread jack but its seams like you guys need a little help from a pro!
If body language communicates 90% of what is said during courting, then talking to them in their ear (or whispering) should be responsible for about 50% of that. The ear is a very erogenous zone.
AND WOMEN LOVE IT WHEN THEY ARE WHISPERED TO.
Everyone does. If a below average chick says something remotely sexy in your ear, you will be way more turned on than if she said it to you face to face. The same goes for women. So if the bar is loud (and you should look for above average loudness bars) you have every right to use this technique: she won’t ask you "why are you whispering in my ear" because she knows it's loud.When you start talking to her, immediately reach for getting your lips around 9 inches or so from her ear. When if she is responding by letting you talk to her in that manner, try to get closer and closer as the dialog develops. If she isn't backing away every time you are responding to something you are saying, and if she keeps asking you questions or is trying to make conversation, you know you are good and can go on with this method. Within five minutes you should be talking to her IN her ear, as your lips should be almost touching her ear. While you are carrying out the whisper technique, you should be also working on the third seduction method called. “The boob touch”
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Screw it I will post it anyways!The boob touch technique works like this: You are both standing in a club or bar, you have already approached her, sparked a conversation, and while talking (whispering) to her, you hold your drink with both hands in front of your chest and stand very close to her. This is a standard "I'm just socializing" position.By having your gin and tonic (or what have you) right in front of your chest, you try to ever so slightly touch her boobs (not the nipples just yet) while you are whispering to her. Don't bring attention to it, it is happening merely as an unintentional accident: you are trying to make sure she hears what you are saying by talking to her in her ear, but because you have to reach over to her ear, your knuckles are accidentally brushing against her boobs and nipples.Proceed to repeat this throughout your conversation, quickly brushing against her nipples. Again, if she keeps making conversation it means she is enjoying it (green light). Sometimes you will notice that they Just start asking the most bland and pathetic questions, meaning, " don't stop cause I love it". Keep this up for as long as you feel like it. We do recommend changing gears while they are still wet, so within twenty minutes of talking via the "boob touch" method, you can take it to the next level called the "Let's go somewhere" method.
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I have to say that all girls are not bad like you all seem to think. You just have to find the right one, that won't lead you on when she already has a boyfriend.:rolleyes And Technoman your posts are hillarious! I couldn't help laughing when i was reading them, but if that works for you, i guess it means you've got a good system!:pface
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Techno’s reason for NOT asking a girl for her number.
What happens when you ask a girl for her number? Why is getting a girl's phone numbers bad?
Because you are postponing something that should be happening tonight! When you get a girl's phone number at a bar or club, you are allowing something that is presently hot (your encounter, conversation and chemistry with her) to cool down. By the next time you call her, she will have made some rational decisions about you, as opposed to an emotional decision she could have made had you persuaded her to sleep with you that night.During the time she is waiting for your call, she is taking many factors into account before deciding whether to go out on a date with you or not.Factors such: Did she like you? Did she like your face? If there was anything weird you said during your conversation. Her friends opinion of you. What her schedule is like. Does she really want to date anyone?All these factors have to line up for you to get the green light and take her out. Furthermore, even if you do get to take her out on a date, you are not guaranteed sex! Your chances of getting lucky on a first date are less than 20%!So why should you get her number when you can persuade her to come back to your place the same night? Your chances of having sex with her by getting her number and taking her out on a date are between 3 and 4%.And your chances of having sex the FIRST night you take her out by getting her number are between 1% and 2%. This means that you would have to get 50 numbers from different chicks before getting laid 4 or 5 days from now.Mathematically, getting numbers does not work. The numbers are against you.
What happens when you ask a girl for her number? Why is getting a girl's phone numbers bad?
Because you are postponing something that should be happening tonight! When you get a girl's phone number at a bar or club, you are allowing something that is presently hot (your encounter, conversation and chemistry with her) to cool down. By the next time you call her, she will have made some rational decisions about you, as opposed to an emotional decision she could have made had you persuaded her to sleep with you that night.During the time she is waiting for your call, she is taking many factors into account before deciding whether to go out on a date with you or not.Factors such: Did she like you? Did she like your face? If there was anything weird you said during your conversation. Her friends opinion of you. What her schedule is like. Does she really want to date anyone?All these factors have to line up for you to get the green light and take her out. Furthermore, even if you do get to take her out on a date, you are not guaranteed sex! Your chances of getting lucky on a first date are less than 20%!So why should you get her number when you can persuade her to come back to your place the same night? Your chances of having sex with her by getting her number and taking her out on a date are between 3 and 4%.And your chances of having sex the FIRST night you take her out by getting her number are between 1% and 2%. This means that you would have to get 50 numbers from different chicks before getting laid 4 or 5 days from now.Mathematically, getting numbers does not work. The numbers are against you.