naladude911 wrote:Yes the time has finally come for Nala to compose the thread; how to ask a girl to prom? I know prom is in June but now is the time to start thinking of creative ways on asking that special person to an amazing night. Do I cover her car with post-it notes asking her to prom? What do I do? Also is it best to get a limo for just the two of us?
people say you have to do it a special and creative way tho.
ok
yea,only magnums fit
me:HihiIve kinda had a crush on you for the past year but never man'd up to tell you now. I was wondering if you would like to go to prom with me this year.ummmm______
alright then. Changing topic a bit..
So this girl that I like, she came to my party and gave me a big hug (I know that doesn't really mean that much but still) and I started talking to her on facebook casually. She says she had a fun time, thanked me for having her over, and hopes that I do it again. When she comes on facebook chat again shall I ask;"hey whats up""hi nm u?""umm I was jw what you were doing tomorrow night. I found out about this really nice italian restaurant in whiteplains and I was wondering if you would like to try it out?"
were on break now, I get kinda scared, I dont have her #
its just hard for me to get a chance to talk in person. Remember high school cafeterias? hundreds of kids staring at you, and she is always with her friends.
but then after we talk and she goes back to her friends, her friends will be like "what did he have to say" and then she will tell them I asked her out, and if she says no, then rumor will spread and I'll feel embarrassed to go to school.
hmm, knowing me tho I'll just walk up, palms sweaty, and say"hey""ummm hi""have a good break?""yea, it was fun what about you""ehh it was okay, I didn't go anywhere""yea, me either""anyways, I was just wondering if you wanted to grab dinner at this really nice restaurant in ___this Friday""yea, sure sounds fun""cool, whats your number""its _______""great, il text you on the time i'll pick you up after I make the reservations"
alright. It's the girls bday today. I just realized. She is going to be going out with her friends tomorrow night so I am going to call her up (she called me the other night) on Saturday and ask her to dinner. Wish me win
So I'm going to call her tomorrow using this:Ring ring ringbannaphonebee bop bee bop beebannanphone
no just kiddingring ring ringhello?Hi it's Stephen, just wanted to wish you happy birthdayaww thanksUmm I was wondering if I could take you out to dinner tonight? I know this really nice restaurant in White Plains.Sure that sounds funGreat, I'll make the reservations and pick you up around 7.
Now before I go pick her up, I'm going to vacuum out the QX4 and bring her a bouquet of roses as her bday present
Today is her birthday which is why I am going to ask her tomorrow. So no roses or anything? I should get her some sort of present.
yes, but a teddy bear? what else?
were 18 tho, girls still like teddy-bears? And I took that picture, that is me. This restaurant is a very nice restaurant with valet parking.
vote ban
applebees?
what about japanese
I'm just asking. Applebees seems like I'm taking her to Mcdonalds
Ill just take her to the diner. We have a really nice diner and they serve everything. very good food to
this diner is really nice tho, its where everyone from school goes for lunch. Food is excellent and better then applebees yet half the price.
What about johnny rockets?
should I ask her to go; skating? to a movie?
or we'd get to drunk
wax
Ill ask her tomorrow afternoon.......so much suspense lol
yay for thread jacking
its not me. How come no one has commented on my plow yet
Well I called her; she said she couldnt go out because she had to get up early the next day for dance (she takes dancing lessons).
Ill try again next week, unless its obv she meant that as a final no.
I see her in class (here comes an awkward semester) so Ill ask her in person this week, for Friday.
yes, thats what every google search returned under "how to ask a girl out". you need the specific activity and time.....I am going ice skating at _____ want to come is better than Would you like to go ice skating this friday?
yes, she does. Maybe she wants to speak in person tho?
we shall see when I see her tomorrow in class
I see her next period, I'm home for lunch right now lol
so I saw her yesterday but it was awkward to talk. Today I'm going to send her a text saying; when are you free today? I'd like to talk to you in person.
1. she never replied2. after 4 hours of the text i saw her when i was walking towards the parking lot on my WAY TO MCDONALDS, and she walked the other direction with her friend, hid in the car, and once i was in my car got out of the car and walked back to school.3. I called her but she never picked up4. Time to move on.
who is going to carilse this year, il try and make it .Maybe you guys can help me in person lol
I signed off nico after i made the post about texting her
I never asked her out via text, I asked when she was available to talk basically.
im not ugly. Im a 5'8 male, muscle, not fat, ripped, little to no acne, and not so much as of a looser as i have been. this year I now actually hang out in the cafeteria with the "cool" people as well as outside of school. Before it was browsing nico in the computer lab
All right im bumping this for the belief of good reason.
People are starting to ask people to prom.The girl I like, is more of an acquaintance with me. I plan to ask her this week of next week.
Now I know NICO has said to ask her in person, with just a simple question but that is NOT how people have done it at my school, and I believe it may be best to do it with more creativity since it may lessen her chances of saying no.
Now with that being said I have a couple of ideas.
One: Decorating her car and writing with window paint: Prom? - MY NAME
Two: Showing up at her house, putting a bouquet of roses on her door step, writing PROM? on my windshield (everyone knows my car), ringing the door bell, and hiding in the woods with a bunch of friends (less creepy).
Three: The school is set up so that the senior section of the cafeteria faces the road in which everyone drives up through to park. That being said, she always sits by the window. I was thinking of driving up, writing PROM on my windshield, blast music that has some relation to romance (NE-YO go on girl, love hurts etc) stepping out with a bouquet of flowers, and looking at her. This is my most favored one. I will have my friends in the cafeteria tell her to turn around and look at my car. She and her friends will probably think its really cute as well.
Suggestions. PLEASE take this seriously (I know this is a long thread).
Im leaning more towards three because I think 2 is kinda of creepy showing up at her house. Three seems to be very creative, and people will be like awww, thats so cute.
but isnt that a good thing? she says yes? Then she finds out that shes happy that she did say yes.
not at all but ok.........
I wasnt planning for just me to drive up by myself. I was planning on having a bunch of friends standing on the side of the car while I pull up screaming.
What I was planning to do to idea #1 minus the fail. She drives a red jeep liberty Columbia edition.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gWZkSXpup7Q
Blonde chick
Keeping it the old fashioned way is ok, but if you go the extra mile it shows thatA: you really care, and really like herB: You're creativeC. If she says no, then people think that she's really mean and feel bad for you.
Ive talked to my friends and they say number three will be a great idea.
I was thinking of that, and asking her there. ugh so many choices. What do you think of 4?
4 wont work, she lives off a busy road and it wont work out.
This area circled is at the beginning of our senior lot (right of circle). it is now covered in brick. I was thinking of parking on here when all the seniors walk to his or her car at the end of school, stand with flowers, and put a banner on the side that says: katie, prom?
thats more creepy imo, less romantic, and less awesome in so many ways.
screw it, im just going to decorate her car. Ill hide behind it, and when I hear her go "OMG" ill appear with roses. My friends will stand with me.What should I wear when I ask her?
asking her is just more like, idk random. At our school its better to be creative.
she was at my party, wrote me a nice thank you letter, and talked on ichat a couple of times..............
hmm maybe your right..
It was small talk....
Shes sitting with her friends to I just go up to them and be like, hey, can I talk to you for a quick second in private. And she will be like ok.......we go somewhere.umm, I was just wondering if you wanted to go to prom?(this, one on one without an "event" creates an awkward moment).
ehhh your right. What about:
Having 10 kids or more over and have everyone hide in the basement (party room) and they all know (and her friends) that im asking her to prom. She gets the invite to my "party" and she goes downstairs and im there holding a sign that says: prom? and everyone yells surprise. The kids are my good friends so even if she does say no, its less embarrassing and its not the whole school.
its going to be pretty awkward standing in the hall having a very small conversation....
What about asking her out to dinner, saying I need to talk about something really important in person and I thought it would be better to do it over dinner, and ask her then?
yes I do. Id call her up tho when I ask her. See im learning. gtg to bed.
Yea you guys are absolutely right, I thought about it last night.I talk to one of her friends, tell her my plan, and get her phone number. I call her up saying:"hello""hi, who's this?""stephen, stephen ___""o hi, whats up""well, I was wondering if you wanted to get dinner tonight? I have something very important that I would like to ask you in person.""sure, what time"etc
Now before I pick her up, I'm going to go to the restaurant and give them a bouquet of roses. Once we sit down at our table I'm going to signal to the waiter to bring the roses and ask her to prom.
Now I have two questions.
Is this plan good?Is this plan good but is it better to ask her out to on a date first, and do this the second round?
So your saying not to take NICOS advice on asking her out on a date on the phone or in person?
Ok. Ill ask her next week for dinner next Friday.
Because im busy this weekend, and as you said, I should take things slowly
i went on a date before, and im fine talking without all my peers staring at me. I guess you forgot how awkward high school is?
I got her phone number, saying after a short conversation "i just got a new phone and Im updating my contacts, can I please have your number"
At the end of saying thanks she said
kbye.
yea, and the kbye doesnt mean anything, she had to go hahah
Umm well I said it was over aim, but I got it anyways.
So my plan is to take her out a couple times, then ask her to prom on like the 2nd or third date.
Should I ask her to casual lunch tomorrow or wait a week
so shall I wait a week or ask her to lunch tomorrow
talk to her more in person? IDK. I plan on calling her, asking if she wanted to get lunch. Problem is what if she says no. Thats going to be very awkard, but w.e. She says no then there is no point asking to prom.
So I should ask her on a first date, not a second date?
im going to call her today
When I was small.
umm my mom said I can have another party this friday
I have over 50 people coming to my house Saturday, 65% are girls, 70% of those 65% are the hottest ones in my grade. win.
More win is I got that girls number, and she said that she really wants to come, shes excited, and yea.
1. It was very successful last time, and 50 people came and said they wanted it again.
2. How am I going to take pictures? That's really sketchy
you guys are useless with advice 90% of the time, because you haven't seen the setting, or even met this chick. Shes not like that at all, and Ive had a crush on her since sophmore year. Shes really nice
I dont like what you guys are saying about this girl
im doign what nico says
^ He is right
I have good news.
1. One of my friends was talking to her friends, and he said that her friend said that the girl is REALLY REALLY pumped for this weekend
2. That was also confirmed today by my best friend. He was walking close behind her and her friends, and her friends were talking about this weekend saying it will be amazing. Somehow the girl knows about me asking her to prom. My friend says she got really excited and says to her friends after they were talking about my party : you think he will ask me there?Friends: I hope not, you might be a little drunk lol.Girl: I hope he asks me soon, im so excited.They turn around and see my friend and all go"o s***, hes gonna know"
I wont. I wont ask her there, il ask her monday or tuesday.