I'm 34 (in June). Been in quite a few scraps in my day, mainly because I'm a smartarse.
I carry an ASP in my car, and sometimes on my person. Never had occasion to use it. Hope I never do.
I'm having a real hard time understanding how you can say, "I don't go running to the PD to solve my problems, that ain't my style." However, you have no problem getting friends to back you up in seeking revenge. Wonder what would happen if you were like me, and had lots of PD friends? Quite the quandry, eh?
Anyway, lots of people talk a big game, but unless you've ever drawn back your fist and punched someone in the head with the intent to hurt them, you don't know what it feels like. It ain't the movies, kids - it hurts like hell, and you're probably gonna break a bone or two if you throw hard enough. You'll get one punch, and it better be a good one - then your hand swells up like Professor Clump and you say M*$^*(#^$) F)(&$^*##)($ THAT HURTS!!!! Trust me on this one, LOL!
And to think you're gonna jack someone with a bat/stick/club/baton is the same way - As human beings, we have an innate resistance to hurting our fellow man - Subconsciously, you'll back off just before impact - Then you're likely to get beat down for trying.
The smartest thing I've read in this thread? Don't get high and hang out on the porch where you can get thumped. I hope you get better soon.
Busted lips and pride? They heal. Crushed skulls and big holes through bodies don't. Be careful out there, it just ain't worth it.
