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Mon Jan 29, 2007 8:20 pm
Well it's simple. Popularity is important to many people. popularity is based on doing mostly what the crowd you wish to be popular with is doing. Being popular is fine but it is very easy to become a trend follower in the pursuit of popularity and supress your creativity and ownership of your decisions and consequently your life. I gave up years ago trying to please other people and do what they thought was cool. I have my own style and I really don't give a dam what people think. Once you get to that point it is easy to explore stylistic and personal potential possibilities because there is no detriment if you try something and it fails because you are not trying to impress anybody. If people enjoy what I do I like that, don't get me wrong but if they don't it has no effect on me. I think you will find that most people with personal charisma tend to do what they feel is best for them and most people gravitate to that. They don't follow trends they set them. This is why it bugs me when people hate on other's style. Style is not measurable or comparable, it's a personal thing but people bag on others likes as if it was quantifiable. That really says a lot about the attacker. Most people that religiously follow trends are lemmings that could not function without the visible boundries of whatever style their chosen group has decided by concensus or by leadership guidance is "cool". If one does not care about such intangibles it would be like adding a whole new direction to pursue, like going from radio to TV. This is how I drive pink Skylines and have Alan Jackson in my CD changer next to Public Enemy, Rammstien and Kodo. I do what I want whenever the hell I want to do it and it feels great! Three years after the fact my co-workers are still talking about the company party that I rolled into wearing a pirate shirt. White cotton with ruffles and crap. I had to listen to "lord of the dance" references but I don't care, I don't take myself seriously at all. I have a faux suede fur-lined pimp coat ready for this year
I remember a pivotal conversation in High School with some jock when he said. "everybody hates you"I said "not really but everyone knows me". "ten years from now people will still be talking about me but nobody will remember you at all"
That is what I like but again, that's my thing. I don't hate on others for doing thiers. Well maybe Jeffery Dalmer. He should not do his own thing.