Welcome aboard!
You have an expensive, well-engineered car. The "stance" fad is not for those with shallow pockets, or amateurs.
At a bare minimum, you're looking at coilovers, wheels, tires, and a proper alignment. My G coupe had 1" of gap, and still performed well on a track and for daily driving. Any lower than that, and you've basically created a piece of furniture.
....unless you want to be one of those pinheads who thinks excessive camber, stretched tires, and "tucking rim" is cool. In that case, start with a Civic and practice.
