I wish there were more decent people around town who needed work done, I'd learn a lot

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Anyway, reading a ton helps. Browing the forums here has brought me more knowledge than anything (besides a couple installs on my own car).
My dad wasn't much help beyond new windshield wipers. If I was into stereos I'd be set (Electrical Engineering degree), but of course, I want speed. Learning to wash a car properly is a good first step, learned that from my brother. You've never seen a cleaner car than when he's washed it, wow... I'm getting there.
Anyway, tinker around, find some friends who are installing stuff and join them (install days are GREAT excuses to have friends over... my original crew of 3 will be 5 for my next install, despite the fact that this should be the easiest install yet, assuming I go exhaust over suspension...blah blah, launches into internal dialogue about what to do next).
If it takes you a lot longer than people tell you it will, it's probably a good thing, unless it doesn't work. This part comes from experience, being that I've done only two installs on my car and pretty much 0 of the maintenance (haven't had it long). Installing my intake took 8 hours, including 2.5 troubleshooting as to why the car died even when the gas was floored... the MAF was backwards (DOH!). This is what happens with 3 car geeks with little to no experience... combined.
So, like I said, I've only been under the hood/car twice since getting it in August, and I'm dying to get under her again, even if it takes some obscene amount of time, the satisfaction of having done it myself (with help from friends, which is almost free) is great.
Favorite tricks:-cuss, a lot-bolt not coming off? Hit it! Now try again!-spend all that time that you're trying to get that stupid bolt mentioned before off also talking with your friends about where you're going to victory (victory over the forces of "pay-to-install") dinner... victory dinner is the GREATEST tradition ever, I hope you all try it sometime.-cuss, more-do little stuff while I'm at it, for instance, when we pulled out my stock intake setup, since the battery was out too, I whipped out the shopvac and vacuumed out some of the engine bay, clean cars are happy cars.-money is a biatch (not a trick, just me griping)
Hmm... not a lot of favorite tricks yet, all the more reason I need my paycheck... GAR!
A bit of advice for starting out: it doesn't matter how long it takes, or how many cuts you acquire, or anything, so long as it works. Relish the newfound power/handling/etc you get every time you install something... the first drive with a new part is always the most enjoyable one.
Oh, and I'm not quite 17 myself (so close... 31 days), so I fully understand where you're coming from

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