Thats some incentive to do an Rb25 swap!
Hondas can be made to be very fast, as can Nissans or any other car for that matter. I know of a guy right now that has a t3/t4 hybrid on his b18 (think its a b18?) Civic hatchback, and he runs 10's on the bottle! It's damn fast. Hondas are very good at efficiency. I've seen plenty of crx's with a b16/b18 swap and some mods and serious lightening (basically stripped interior) run 12's and 13's with only 160-200hp. Though, it sounds like those friends of yours might not be the dedicated types to go through with a lot of work like that. It also sounds like they are pro Honda and don't know anything about Nissan. In reality, I don't care what anyone thinks, you look in Japan and Nissan and Toyota are the top 2 car manufacturers there in terms of people modifying them and making pure street demons. If we had cars officialy sold here like the Skyline, silvia, soarer, etc than Honda wouldn't be as popular here either. I don't care if you have Vtec, nos a turbo or whatever. No Honda except maybe the NSX would be able to hang with some of the cars on the streets of Japan like those 1000hp+ gtr's and mk4 Supras. FWD and small engines have their limits.
I have a bunch of friends that are die-hard Honda. They don't really think Honda is better than anyone else. Though, most of them are running 18s with bolt-ons, and a friend with a '00 eclipse 4cyl 5spd ran a damn 17! None of them have anything other than a few bolt-ons of course but, even my beater '91 Maxima (vg30e SOHC) is good for a ~15.5-15.8 if I fixed a few problems on it. I could still pull all of them and my car is screwed up!

I respect Honda and especially any Honda owner that tastefully upgrades his Honda into a monster. Honda's are good for what they are but, Nissan and Toyota just do it better IMO. Hell I could beat most of my friends in my '73 240z (if I had it on the street at the moment) and that's a damn 30yr old car.