Veriest1 wrote:2) Medicaid isn't an option. I can't stand the idea of handouts
Handouts? See that category for Medicaid on your paycheck? You are paying for it already.
I think you are in that region where you make too much to qualify for help, and not enough to pay for what you need. Does the state of Texas have coverage options?
Bad example, but my girlfriend (now wife) qualified for medicaid when she was pregnant. Our daughter was born two and a half months early and was in intensive care for a month. The bill would have been $180,000. I actually wish I could pay more tax out of my check toward medicaid now. I donate a bit to the hospital every year, but if I had to foot the bill myself I would be in indentured servitude my whole life.
My advice it to get on it and get help where ever you can, you don't know what the future holds.