1. I want to remove these casting marks:

I have a dremel, but it lacks of working bits, just drum sanders and couple of orange stones. I've tried them but they almost don't cut aluminum at all. What cutting bits should I buy? And what polishing bits for exhaust channels and combustion chamber?
2. I'm going to smooth sharp transition edges

but as you can see from another angle

valve seats are not flush with surface and form sharp edges themselves. Can I smooth these edges or I'll just ruin valve seats in this case?
3. And the last quick question: have I ruined the valves or a piece of fine grit emery paper could help:
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P.S. Any help will be greatly appreciated, but please, don't advise me to find a reputable workshop with flowbench. I have no racing proven engine builders nearby. An ordinary workshop won't succeed with this work much better than me, cause they also will do it for the first time.
