Sounds like someone has never striped a hex headbolt
If you do NOT want to pound on the head bolts, make 100000000000% sure they are CLEAN!!! You need MAXIMUM contact or stripping the hex head is likley!!
If you use a socket extension, make SURE to HOLD THE EXTENSION when you turn the breaker bar, you do NOT want ANY side loads on the hex socket or bolt.
Note, don't whail on the head bolts with a hammer, you can tell when the socket bottoms out inside the hex head bolt.
another note, WD-40 is a water displacement formula (plus it smells good

), use PB blaster..