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[nissangirl74]

I am writing a paper for Psychology on sex. I am curious to know what turns you on, turns you off, your age (very important to the study)and whether or not you think a person's upbringing affects what you believe to be acceptable or taboo behavior. Also, if you are over the age of twenty-five, how does your current drive compare to when you were in your teens? I'm wanting honest answers so be as explicit as you want.
Thanks for your help!

[RCA]

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[Dittoz7]

No

[nissangirl74]

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Answer it here in this thread so I can keep all the information together. Please and thank you. Your answers don't have to be structured in a particular format, just readable.

[ADDirishboy]

Age: 21

Turn on's: Short, pale skin, dark hair, tattoo's (not excessive), in good shape, can sing, likes video games, likes roll-playing, likes a little S & M

Turn off's: Doesn't ever work out, smoking, gets sloppy drunk a lot, no sense of humor, not into anything kinky, overly large boobs (They are nice to look at, but just get in the way in bed)

Yes, I think a person's upbringing CAN affect what they see as "normal" behavior in the bedroom. But usually it ends up being the people that were sheltered the most are into the most kinky stuff.

[Encryptshun]

I like my wife to cover herself in grey makeup and spend at least 10 minutes in a tub of ice before sex.

What? Like you other guys have never done that.

[nissangirl74]

wouldn't that cause shrinkage issues?

[Xdisaster240sX]

Turn ons- My wife wearing nothing but panties, When she breathes on the tip of my before she gives me , Taking pictures, Tattoos, piercings, talkling dirty. Im a man so pretty much anything she does turns me on.

Turn offs- Smoking, Fat (sorry but Im being honest) Laziness, bad attitudes, bitchiness, White trash, and girls who think there a hardcore G yo, cheating (Of course)

Im 24. My sex drive has been just the same since I was about 14/15. My wife and I do it atleast once a day. From what I hear the older she gets the more she'll want it. I think I read women hit their high point in their sex life in their mid 30s. I cant wait.

I think her upbringing did/does effect our sex lives. Her dad was a strict ***hole and her Mom was never around. I wasnt a bad kid or anything and Sex wasnt really important to me at the time.We were each others first also. He just hated me because I liked his daughter. I guess to rebel against him we used to break into his room and do it on his bed My wife is a freak. lol. To this day we still find new places to do it just to keep the excitement alive. This was kinda disturbing to tell nico but its for a study so what the hell

[nissangirl74]

Thank you!

[Encryptshun]

Age: 37

Turn-ons: A pulse. Honestly. My wife is absolutely f*cking awesome and we love each other to the point of disbelief. Because of that, everything from all 5 senses that involves her turns me on. After being together for years, the biggest turn-on is anything different from the normal routine. It can be the way she wears her hair, changing her perfume, buying a new dress, staying overnight in a hotel (we try to do that occasionally even if the hotel is a mile from our house), or going for a nice drive on a weekend afternoon. Lingerie and toys and stuff are cool, and fantasy has its place, but at the end of the day reality is the biggest turn-on of all.

Turn-offs: Blumpkins, hot carls, cleveland steamers, dirty sanchez's. Anything involving the creation of, manipulation of, or disposal of poo. Also I've found that screaming out "REPOST" during climax seems to turn her off a bit.

Effects of upbringing: I'm from Missouri. Having never succumbed to the allure of livestock, pretty much anything else (except the aforementioned copraphelia) is within limits. I have a personal disinclination to introduce outside partys into our sexy time, but that's because I have no desire beyond my wife moreso than because of some sort of hang-up. I was raised conservative Christian, and, while that dogma certainly TRIED to make me ashamed of my body and sex, I saw through it and developed normally nonetheless.

Changes in drive: Not sure my drive has subsided, but I've had to learn to repress it. I'm always ready, but my priorities have changed as I've gotten older and have assumed more responsibilities. I can't come in late for work and use "Hey, I was horny" as an excuse. When the dog needs to go out to pee, he doesn't care if we are naked or not. I can't ask my stepdaughter to leave the house for a few hours every evening so she doesn't hear us making sounds that would put the sanest person in therapy. In short, I have more than just myself to think about, and so does my wife.

[OriginalWheelman]

I'm not confident I can answer this survey in this thread and keep my friends here.

[numbnuts240]

age: 25

turn-ons: boy shorts. full figured booty (none of that sloppy cellulite a**). professional attire. glasses.

turn-offs: huge tits. tattoos. dirty talk (please stfu, i'm trying to concentrate). stripper attire (retarded lingerie, heels, etc).

effects of upbringing: i grew up in the hood and lived in suburbia. i like all types of wimminz.

change in drive: i would have sexy time until macaque pressed charges if i could.

[AppleBonker]

Turn-offs: Blumpkins, hot carls, cleveland steamers, dirty sanchez's. Anything involving the creation of, manipulation of, or disposal of poo. Also I've found that screaming out "REPOST" during climax seems to turn her off a bit.

Edit: Please tell me you've actually tried the "REPOST" thing. I'm tempted to. I already used the "BONKSKEET" idea that Ant gave me. Epic.

Also, you have a stepdaughter?!?

Age: 26

Turn-ons: Pretty much everything. I think I could get turned on by a brick wall. Um, a chick who takes charge is pretty hot though. None of this laying there all the time stuff. Sometimes I don't want to do ALL the work.

Turn-offs: Too many tattoos. Some are ok, full sleeves are gross. Freaky colored hair. Stupidity. Age (yeah, I said it, I don't find your grandmother attractive).

Upbringing: Grew up in relatively affluent suburbia. I definitely think that affected my behavior. While we don't openly discuss this stuff as a family, I think my upbringing contributed to me not finding anything (not limited to sexual stuff) weird. Not sure if that answers your question well enough here...

Change in drive: Pretty much the same as when I was younger? I dunno. Certainly doesn't feel like I'm any less interested now that I was 10 years ago...

[nissangirl74]

OK ,let's mix the age issue up a bit. Example: an eighty year old man sees an attractive thirty-something woman walk down the street. Just because he doesn't have as much testosterone anymore and he doesn't become physically aroused, do you think that has anything to do with attraction?

[AppleBonker]

No. But what he defines as "attractive" will likely change with age. Though I don't personally think that has anything to do with hormones. It's more personal experiences and maturity.

[AZhitman]

No. But what he defines as "attractive" will likely change with age. Though I don't personally think that has anything to do with hormones. It's more personal experiences and maturity.

^ THIS.

Honestly, I can appreciate the attractiveness of certain women who are substantially younger. But the general annoyance of being around them (most of them, anyway) is a colossal turn-off.

Since I'm a bit "old-fashioned" in my tastes (gotta have the emotional connection), it's not difficult to separate admiration from desire. I can see some spectacularly-hot college-age chick and not have any desire to pursue it.

My wife, on the other hand...

[nissangirl74]

No. But what he defines as "attractive" will likely change with age. Though I don't personally think that has anything to do with hormones. It's more personal experiences and maturity.

^ THIS.

Honestly, I can appreciate the attractiveness of certain women who are substantially younger. But the general annoyance of being around them (most of them, anyway) is a colossal turn-off.

Since I'm a bit "old-fashioned" in my tastes (gotta have the emotional connection), it's not difficult to separate admiration from desire. I can see some spectacularly-hot college-age chick and not have any desire to pursue it.

My wife, on the other hand...

[naladude911]

well here is my answer:
Turn ons: Full figured, slim, yoga pants, lingerie, not to shy, out going, doesn't cause drama, DTF, "smokes" (not going to write what since everyone can view this post), drinks, intelligent ( I hate girls that are trashy and don't speak properly)
Turn offs: Lazy, fat, bitchy, snoby, overly rich, JAP'y, hard to get, wear ugly a** clothes
Change of drive: Well not much. My right hand and I bond around 2 times a day.

[AppleBonker]

"smokes" (not going to write what since everyone can view this post)

Lulz.

Change of drive: Well not much. My right hand and I bond around 2 times a day.

Epic lulz.

[numbnuts240]

Turn offs: hard to get

so you've never been turned on by the opposite sex? interesting.

[RCA]

Nala posting about sex

[tm1218]

Age: 20
Sex Drive: Dangerously high
Turn-On: Good looking sluts
Turn-Off: Smelly, out of shape, and dirty looking.

[AppleBonker]

Turn offs: hard to get

so you've never been turned on by the opposite sex? interesting.

[Jesda]

Turn-ons: The "sense" of being in control. I don't have to actually BE in control, she just has to let me think I am. Thinking that I'm in control when the girl is a strong, confident person is a HUGE turn-on.

Turn-offs: Helplessness, weakness, lack of confidence. Weak women in any aspect of life, not just in bed, are awful. Weak men are usually worthless bums, but weak women are potentially destructive and completely useless.

One's childhood concept of normal sexuality affects everything. I mean, if one's mother was a hooker, I imagine that would cause tremendous psychological damage. My answer to this question is tainted by the episode of Law and Order UK that I just watched. I grew up in what seemed like a Leave It To Beaver scenario, but with a lot less money. It wasn't perfect, but it was awesome.

I'm 28. I don't get wood when there's a breeze outside anymore. No more tucking it behind my belt. I also care a lot less about getting my whistle wet and more about long-term goals like her education, earnings, potential as a suitable long-term mate or mother, etc. I'm more into the idea of building a foundation. I used to ask a girl what she does for fun. Now I ask what she does for a living. I watch my friends and see how their relationships succeed or fail. I have a personality that seems to attract very needy women, so I try to be very careful now.

[Bubba1]

[honestly, I can appreciate the attractiveness of certain women who are substantially younger. But the general annoyance of being around them (most of them, anyway) is a colossal turn-off.

Since I'm a bit "old-fashioned" in my tastes (gotta have the emotional connection), it's not difficult to separate admiration from desire. I can see some spectacularly-hot college-age chick and not have any desire to pursue it.

My wife, on the other hand...

+1 As you get older it does seem easier to separate admiration from desire. Though I think having a happy marriage is a strong factor behind that ease.

[PEZi]

age: 21

sex drive: high, but not desperate... won't settle for something i don't want

turn on's: short, petite, proportionate, sexy eyes, good face, tattoos (just not excessive), piercings (also just not excessive), and of course my love for shapely breasts (SIZE DOES NOT MATTER! GIVE ME GOOD SHAPE!), gives good head, willing to do anal, doesn't mind swallowing, doesn't mind getting plastered with jizz

turn offs: "typical americans" (aka fatties), "fluff" (i don't like 'em ripped but if there's enough fat to cover up lean muscle that's too much), bad teeth, bad hair, weaves, ethnicities (sorry... i like 'em at least half white), prudes, ugly people

[sentrastace]

This should be fun:

turns me on: lookswise? I dont have a racial preference but I do prefer a tall guy with pretty eyes and a nice smile, good build. doesnt have to look like 'the situation', but not flabby either. large penises. strong hands. soft touch.

turns me off: cockiness/machoness...fatties...people who have no regard for their health, selfish people....small penises

Age: 21

whether or not I think a person's upbringing affects what I believe to be acceptable or taboo behavior: absolutely. i too tired to write an essay at the moment. will return later.

I thought this thread was NSFW? seems fine to me

[ADDirishboy]

large penises.

Penises? As in plural? How many d!ck does your bf have?

[PEZi]

large penises.

Penises? As in plural? How many d!ck does your bf have?

he's an SRT-4 owner.... he has at least 3 dildos on him at any given time....

[Space Monkey]

To be blunt, I'm shallow & not ashamed to admit it.

Attractive:
Sex: Women
Age: 19 to 28
Height: 5' to 5'6
Breasts: Must be perky, Must be at least a B cup, but no larger than a C cup.
Waste: Toned. Small amount of "fluff" is ok, but nothing that flaps over the jeans...
Hips: Perfected to be between a 30" to 34" range. I like curves, but not too large.
Ethnicity: Usually prefer a lighter toned epidermis, but some times the darkies get me going
Brain: At least able to have a respectable conversation and able to plan, but no geniuses.
Face: Very important - Needs to have a very nice face. whether its cute, sexy, hot.
Eyes: Any color - But i love Hazel eyes and large eyes.
Smile: Must have at least a good smile.
Hair: I love different colors of hair. its not a big issue for me. Could be red or green for all i care.
Attitude: Required to understand sarcasm and able to take it just as hard as they give it without drama. Also needs to be humorous.
Religion: Must not be completely religious. I am personally against religion, so it just wont work.
Clothes: Many styles are attractive if that person can pull it off, but a woman in cargo pants or sweat pants is just down right sexy!
Sex in random places


Unattractive:
Obesity
Doing All the Work During Sex
Drama
Laziness
Depression
Overly Large Breasts
Overly Large Booties
Religion
Bad Teeth
Scars
Body Modification
Sluttiness - There is a difference between slutty and sexy...know the line!
Illnesses - I want a normal happy life
Overly Smart - Makes me feel dumb
Self centered
Self Conscious - I hate women that are dead gorgeous that think they are ugly...
Stupidly immature
Drugs - Any kind
Smoking - Any kind


I would say since i have such a strict set of rules my high standards make it very hard to find women that interest me. I find to attract the need women with life issues, so i am careful when things look too good to be true...

Sex Drive:
My sex drive has been on overdrive since i was 16, but never settle for anything less than my standards. If i get into another relationship then she either must put out once a day or be fine with me having p0rn.

Age: 24

My upbringing was very sheltered and in the direction on Christianity. I found that due to the sheltered rules i was forced to act out and brake the rules to learn about the life i was being sheltered from. I was in trouble all the time from the age of 5 to 18, but never anything serious. I have never been arrested or charged with anything. I happen to turn out the exact opposite of the life they tried to provide me with. I'm open minded and anti-religious.

The answer to your question is Yes & No depending on your gullibility while growing up.

If i missed anything, let me know!