If you can find a shop (or privateer) who will install customer-sourced bits, you could order through RockAuto and probably save some cash.
Front end kit is affordable:
https://www.rockauto.com/en/moreinfo.ph ... Viog5Sy9nJ
A couple fears here, however: If the suspension components are that far gone, I suspect there will be some broken bolts, and God-only-knows what other damage to be found. Rust doesn't attack some parts and leave others alone unless they're AL vs steel.
The first shop owner MAY have been telling you that to encourage you to proceed with repairs.
Obviously, you'll need an alignment afterwards, so factor that in. Keep us posted!