I am far from a loyalist or elitist when it comes to car care so I don't really have a list of preferred products, more like a list of what I have now. I have used a scarily large and diverse group of products, both consumer grade and professional. For example for car wash I am currently using some ZEP cars wash from a brand new 5 gl. bucket I got for free from a relocating detail supply warehouse. Its super concentrated and should be good for 44000 car washes.
The only product I am fiercely loyal to is 3D HD Touch. This stuff is the best and slickest final wipe I have ever used. Clay, wax, then HD Touch = a super smooth surface.
Exterior
Shampoo - Any dedicated car wash
Dry – Microfiber drying towels (Costco/Amazon)
Clay - Meguirers
Polishes - Optimum Polish / Optimum Compound
Sealant – Optimum Opticoat / Auto Magic XP Seal-It
Wax – Collinite 845 / Meguirers NXT / Armorall Butter
Quick Detailer – 3D HD Touch
Wheels - Car wash and/or 3D HD Touch
Glass – I HATE GLASS. Tried them all, currently on Baby Shampoo + water (google it)
Bug and Tar - Turtle spray I think (not used often)
Interior
Dash and other vinyl – 303 Aerospace Protectant
Leather – Zymol / Meguires / Switching back to Lexol I think
Floor mats – Vacuum
Glass – I HATE GLASS!!!