Woman to woman I would:
1>>>Find another dealership or
2>>>Take a trusted male friend (Sorry to say it but thats the way the world is.) as escort from work or relative that knows about cars.
Example:
When my brakes needed to be done the dealer magnified and exaggerated to his heart's

content to get me to drop $400 for rear brakes.
My boyfriend had recently checked them and said NO WAY the brakes were that worn and we were upgrading the entire system anyway - so we passed on the service.
