heres a picture to explian what im talking about

So i already tried loosening the bolts from both engine mounts and the crossmember and shaking and pushing it to get it straight, but it wont budge. If it makes a difference, they are nismo mounts all around. Some guys on the local forum were saying the nismo mounts are garbage, but i dont see how the mounts made off nissans performance division are "garbage" compared to megan or home made mounts.
Anyways, i wanted to take off my crossmember and flip it around to see if it made a difference, but i dont have a jack that goes high enough at the moment, so once i get it off its gonna be pretty damn hard to get back on, hopefully tomorrow i can get a friend to help me with that. But this is how the corssmember sits right now

if anybody knows off the top of their head if thats on right or if its on backwards, that would be greatly appreciated
I also figured it could be that the engine mounts are on backwards, but im pretty sure they are both the same. I will try that if the crossmember doesnt work, but i have no idea how im gonna be able to do that with the engine still in the car
Does anybody have any other ideas on why it would be sitting like that?
