well does it have all the mods listed for the mines ECU? if so its likely the mines mines ecu wasn't just thrown in as part of the deal, but actually the ECU ull need to run in the engine. Not sure if the ECu is ka get the number on the outside and reference it on the internet to find out. Im not an SR20DET wiring guru. but pin 32 speed sensor should be hooked up down to the speed sensor on the transmission im guessing with that unhooked your speedo isn't working. Dont worry about pin 43,44,45 ambient air temp i believe is for auto climate control. Dont apply to your car anymore. 25 and 26 i dont believe apply because i dont know of any exhaust temp circuit in our 240's. 24 i believe should go to the combo meter. here is free wiring diagrams and service manuals u can use for the sr to find exactly where they go. There is no S13 manual in english so use the s14 manual. 23 also goes to combo meter for as you stated light check. As for the rest im not to sure, but i know the answers will be found here
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