Unless you are running HID or something higher wattage than this is useless, and like you said unless the whole system from the relay/fuse is upgraded then this one harness is useless. The one thing you have to look for is these is the wire really 14 gauge, ie measuring the copper diameter not the insulation. This is common with cheap Chinese wire which have really thick insulation much no much copper.
If you remember in physics, a thinner wire or strand will have a lower resistance but will not flow as much current; much like a water pipe or exhaust. There are no advantages to larger wire unless it is required because the current is higher than the rating for that gauge of wire.
http://www.powerstream.com/Wire_Size.htm
You can measure the current if you really want to know if it is too high for the OEM wiring, but I believe that the OEM will be 25% larger than needs to be.
From what I have seen in the OEM wiring harness, they didn't skimp on copper, such as the battery cable is way overkill for this system(It is definitely a 0 or 00 gauge cable). I think the only bad thing to come of this is you losing money on a useless item, much like grounding kits and the MAF sensor extra ground; nissan didnt skimp on this car, maybe toyota and honda, but really this is a safty issue so I dont see this being an issue.