That's funny, we are currently looking to replace the Pathy with a X3 for the mrs. She's convinced it's the perfect ride height, steering input (not too much easy power steering, as she claims the Pathy has) and a good solid feeling that makes her feel safe.
I tried PMing you so I could offer my number, but I guess I'm too new. If you care to, feel free to reach out to me and I'll happily offer some tips from my experience.
In general, BMWs are good cars. But they do like their preventative maintenance. It's just like clockwork: ever 80k miles you should replace the entire cooling system. (Brittle-aged plastic expansion tanks, radiator end caps, etc plus an aluminum engine plus a temp gauge that buffers = overheating without much notice and a very warped, inrepairable block and head).
They also eat suspension bushings, tires in 25k due to the -3 camber in the rear on each one.
The engines, alternators, rear ends, axles, joints, wiring, hinges, etc etc are usually great and very reliable. Overall, I find them greatly supported by the online community, parts suppliers and clubs like BMW CCA (car club of America). A 10mm socket and a Phillips will fix most things and most of the car comes apart like it was meant to be worked on (which I feel is intuitive to being a German engineered machine).
Ownership is bittersweet...but always worth it in the end. Very enjoyable drivers that are safe.
There more I could tell you about value and depreciation. Aka...100k BMWs or 10-12k dollar ones are your best bet for value. Buy a 20-30k one and you're going to eat a lot of depreciation....a lot. I bought two newer ones at one time and one lost 13k worth of value in just 6 months. And that was after the $6k clutch and $4k in turbo turbo work I had to put into it at 30k miles. But I've owned 6-7 year old ones where ive driven them for a year or two and sold them for the same $12-14k I paid for them. So it's worth buying older ones and giving them some time, love and a little money
