I have a 2007 so it may not be the same procedure. I don't have the manual in front of me so I would be guessing at how to do it. You don't actually need the lights to go off immediately after turning the car off. They will turn off according to the number of seconds set in your system. It should pass either way. The process of setting the time duration on the Auto lights should be in that section of the manual. If I recall I had to turn the car on first or to accessory, I'm not sure, before I could access the the detailed system settings.