the coolant plug isn't in the head, it's in the block.
On the RH (passenger in USA) the coolant plug is between and just below the the 4'th and 6th exhaust ports (middle). It is virtually impossible to see, but it can be removed by touch. I doubt very much this is what ler29th saw.
The color of the stain is important. I'll bet it's brown (oil) and it's
a. leaking from a valve cover (there a two rubber half moon plugs which frequently leak.b. possibly leaking from a threaded oil passage plug (very rare I think)c. possibly coolant from a freeze plug in the head (also very unlikely)
Look at the photos from my engine (a '90, but very similar) at
http://www.q4sale.com/rebuild.htm
In any case the volume of the leak determines it's severity.
Some owners might not mind a 1/4 qt leak every 1000 miles. Or some states (Ontario in Canada) will not allow a car to be driven if there are any fluid leaks at the time of a saftey inspection (required each time the car is sold)
If it is a oil from the valve cover seal, this is not terribly difficult to fix, but like everything on the Q it is time consuming and therefore expensive. Count on $150 - $250 a month for general maintainence and repair.