heliochrome85 wrote:if i cut back on my eating out 100% it wont cover my lingering 400k in graduate school debt. so to say that i should, is a ridiculous premise.
But, combined with your salary increases when you make it as a Doctor, it
will help you pay it off faster.
In any case, if I was not clear, let me repeat: I did not say that spending should be cut back 100% on any one or two given items. It should be rationally cut across the board as necessary to make it all work.
Indeed,
every spending event should be reviewed to see if it has some slack that can be reduced and/or the spending event can be delayed till it makes sense to do.
My personal story - if you will bear with being bored a bit:
I am a lot older than you, so my college debt was much lower when I graduated. But, in the ten years that I took to pay it off, I did forego and delay big expenses to make sure that I had the money to pay off the loans.
My first car was not a luxury vehicle - I spent $5500 on a Ford Fiesta, with a loan that I paid off quickly too. House purchase is just another example ... I waited eight years to do that - particularly since I also wanted/needed to save up the 20% down-payment. I have previously described how we now buy cars - new - with cash, by saving for it rather than taking out loans.
Most importantly, I refused to allow my credit card debt to go up at all in those early years - the interest rates on those are insane to say the least. So, if I could not afford something, I simply did not buy it.
In much later years, I did let my credit card bills get out of hand a bit, because I was trying to start a company. And I can assure you that that experience was scary as hell!

It took me four or five years of belt-tightening to get everything paid off after I folded the company.
And now, I can say once again: the ONLY regular debt we have is a monthly house mortgage - everything else is paid for when we get it. And, even on the mortgage, I am at 75% equity on the house - in ten to fifteen more years, we will have it fully paid off (accelerating payments is our norm, by the way, I'd rather reduce my 5% mortgage interest items than collect less than 1% in a back account). My wife and I want to leave a house to my son that is free and clear of encumbrances when we die, so that he has an easier life.
I want my country to think forward financially the same way!
Z