LOL, if you've taken the plenum off 5-6 times, you're no Q45 noob!
The MAF on the early Q45 usually fails. Either the crimped wires on the connector come loose, or the solder joints on the internal circuit board get brittle and fail. MAF is expensive new, $400-500, and used ones are all getting pretty old.
Alexander might be referring to the rear subframe bushings, which are hard to replace - you have to drop the entire subframe, burn out the old bushings, etc.
The point is that this car is expensive to maintain. You're lucky to be able to do your own work.
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