Is it the fuse panel cover you don't have?(under dash). Search for a post by me about 3 weeks ago - I listed what each fuse goes to. FYI, the blower has two fuses, they are on the top-left-hand side of the fuse box. 15A each.
::edit::
http://www.nicoclub.com/zerothread?id=88969 ::edit::
These two fuses tie into the (+) terminal of the blower constantly. The ground connection on the blower is made through a multi-tapped resistor. The resistance to ground is based on the position of the fan speed switch. This resistor has four connections, and is located near the blower itself. I've attached a simplified schematic to [hopefully], clear things up. The green lines are ground paths, red is power, and the orange are the button lights. Point is, if the relay goes, it will take the blower and lights with it, which is likely the case here.
Modified by slipnfall at 10:01 PM 11/30/2004
Modified by slipnfall at 11:08 AM 12/1/2004