looks like you have enough balls to get on it, so i'd say get a set of coilovers and 2 way, especailly some tension rods and then you'll be ready to rock it out a little harder. once you get the setup right, then it'll counter steer alot easier. atleast mine did.....
until then, when you pop that clutch, don't be affraid to let go of the wheel, like they were saying, the car will counter for you, you do need to pursuade it to counter sometimes, so you'll need to litterally throw the steering wheel around. you throw it hard to the counter steering direction and then re grab it and work it around. it's kinda confusing but watch an onboard with a pro and watch him throw the wheel around.
here's a great video of Ueo in his hatchi, it's got a great setup under it, but watch very closely as he works that steering wheel, throwing it left to right, you'll want to practice this whenever you can, even parking my car i'll do that haha.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KuMwduVECuM
hope this helps out some, i know that was my big thing that i had troubles with, it wasn't countering early, it was keeping up with the speed of the wheel.
and what he said right above, get seat time, true that man.