Keep researching... but I kid.. too.. sort of.. Never stop researching, cause eventually amid your tireless reading, beside the knowledge you will gain about this part and that part, you will be able to spot the difference between those who speak from hard earned experience and those who blabber from second, third and fifteenth hand internet folklore... and that ability is possibly more valuable than a fast, tight handling 240sx

I myself am a mix, as are most of us. When I talk to you about basic modifications (intake, header, exhaust, diff, suspension, and the amount of money you WILL spend compared to the amount you PLAN to spend) you know I'm speaking from experience, but as far as making 300 to the wheels and driving that kind of animal, you know I'm speaking second hand since I haven't yet gotten that far. Don't worry there are plenty on here who have. Listen to them.
I'll stop boring you now...
On the whole diff thing, The J30 diff is a Nissan R200V Viscous Limited Slip Differential, (google viscous limited slip if you don't know how it works) They came stock in a few different Nissan models in the early to mid 90's. If you can find one in decent condition, it'll work
alright. the more miles they have, the more the fluid inside them degrades, the less effective they are. There are differences between models, most notably the difference between 5 or 6 bolt output shafts. Stock 240's are 6 bolt so if you can find a low miles VLSD out of a 96+ J30 or a spec'd up 240sx, you're golden, as they were they only models to carry the 6 bolt R200V. I've had two of them, one out of an N/A 300zx and one out of a pre 96 J30. I had to get the 5 bolt output shafts to match. (and a file, and a 23mm die to re-thread the ends the previous owner ruined by banging them out with a sledge and mushrooming them... remember what I said about unexpected expenses

)They are the same unit, but the J30 has a taller gear ratio, 3:90 vs 4:09, so your speedo will be off a bit with the J30 diff, as the stock 240sx rear end is 4:09. If you are seriously considering this route you can PM me and I can bore you to death with all the in's and out's of what is required for making (X) VLSD from (X) car work in your chassis and where you kind find everything you need and all that.
If you decide you have enough money to avoid research and headaches, buy the KAAZ. I've never run one before but I know they drop in with no modifications and I've never read a bad word about them. My personal favorite option though is the S15 Helical LSD (google it) Mostly because I'm a fan of headaches, spitting, cursing, throwing things, drinking heavily and doing things the hard way. Like I mentioned above, one of these will do very nicely, and for a couple of hundred dollars cheaper than the KAAZ, but with a lot more work involved. And if some s***-talking, know it all, internet baddass comes in here saying changing the ring and pinion gear on a NIssan R200 diff is not a lot of work (especially in your own garage) then he or she is lying, hasn't done it, and needs to go up to his room cause its past his bed time.
Suspension is easy, just don't be a fish... LOL don't loured in by shiny stuff. First thing you need to do is learn about alignment and what effect different angles (camber, castor, toe) have on a vehicle. If you master all that, trust me, you'll be more knowledgeable than 2/3's of NICO. Next learn the difference between parts that increase you car's performance, and parts that sell because they're shiny but actually don't do jack s***. Example: Unless you're braking into the corkscrew at Laguna Seca at 160mph, do you really need that C-pillar brace? I think you know the answer. Bear in mind though (and this is a broad, all-encompassing statement that refers to motor vehicles as a whole) Any enhancement you make to the roadholding ability of a car (speed through corners) is going to come at the cost of ride quality. Period. Don't want the car to roll as much? It wont absorb bumps as well. Want the car to respond to steering inputs more quickly? It'll respond to pot holes that much more quickly as well. You get to decide where the compromise is made.
Also beware, the culture these days, especially in the S chassis word, is based on cosmetics rather than performance. I'm not necessarily talking about big wings and shiny body kits, we got over those after Fast and the Furious 27 came out. Its more along the lines of making you car "look" like a "drift car." "Drift missile" is the term I believe. What can I say, its what's in right now. Stretched tires on extreme offset wheels with mismatching colored body panels and zip tie stitching on the bumpers is the hot s*** right now, God help us all. So when you go asking for tire advice, as you have, beware of the fact that *most* of the suggestions you will get come from people with this mindset who think that stretching a 195 tire onto a 9 inch wide rim is just average fitment. A good source to refer to on tires is tirerack.com, they give complete specs on on every tire they sell, including recommended rim widths for specific tires, and you'd laugh your a** off if you compared those specs to what kids these days are running on the street. So if you really need tire advice, decide if you're more interested in the hellaflush drifing look, or something that'll actually get you around a corner. (alive)
Thats bout all I've got for now, will it linger?