can't install my new hid's Versa 2010

[j323]

I order my Hid from ddm, H4...
But they came with a wiring kit.. And in order to install the wiring, i need to remove the headlights relay and install the one in the wiring kit... Is it possible to remove the stock headlights relay? I already tried and almost broke it..
I once installed hids in other car, but they didn't need the wiring kit... just plug and play with (ballast and bulbs)
Is there any place where i can buy Hid h4 that didn't need the extra wiring kit with the relay?

[audtatious]

Most retrofits are a properly sized bulb, a ballast, and wiring to/from the ballast. Connect the factory headlight wires to the ballast and you should be good to go. Using a relay is the preferred method but lots of people hard wire them.