Okay, so the problem has been completely solved and i'm now getting spark. after getting the multimeter back i tested all the plugs going into the coil subharness and it turns out the Blue with red stripe wire was not getting power, after tracing it back i noticed i had it taped off with nothing attached. after looking at the swap guide i used (
http://www.frsport.com/SR20DET-Swap-Eng ... _t_26.html) i realised that the blue with red stripe wire was on the list but did not say what to connect it to. which is why i overlooked it, after a bit of research i found out it needed a constant 12, thank god for the parts car. i pulled a relay out of a crap car in my yard and hooked it up to the battery, blue with red wire, and a pink wire because it was the first un used wire i found that gets power when the key is at the on position. i tested the plug with the key at on, i was getting a constant 12 volts. so plugged everything in with a spark plug out cranked it over got spark. unfortunately i didnt get to start it because i forgot there was bolts in the coil and when i pulled the spark plug out a bolt went...... directly in the spark plug hole. so now i have to buy a magnetic extender thing and fish it out. but thanks for your help, this is up here for anyone else having the same problem. and here is a better wiring guide for the swap.
http://zilvia.net/f/engine-tech/293028- ... guide.html once again thank you for the replys