If your into the hatchback body style this is the body kit to buy:
http://www.autoimaging.com/do-luck/180sx_lg.jpg
Its not the purple one, this is the only one ive seen, but if i was into the hatchback style this would be the kit for me.
But dude as far as mods for the car, there are endless possibilities, id start with:
SR20DET internal mods: new cams, cam gears, pistons, connecting rods, new seals for everything, valve springs, rocker arm stopper, pulleys, new oil pan, nismo engine mounts.
If you want better performance from the stock turbo or an upgraded one: Front mount intrecooler, new radiator and electric fan, upgraded fuel pump, fuel pressure regulator, injectors, blow off valve, wastegate, oil cooler, oil catch can, new intake manifold, upgraded exhaust manifold, new piping throuhout, upgraded ignition and spark plugs.
Youll definatly want to upgrade your ECU stand alone or piggy back. Turbo timer and boost controler are a must too.
Then:
A nice coilover set, Tein or JIC.Other suspension upgrades, urethane bushings, tension rods etc..JIC makes awesome stuff for suspension upgrades.
Nice set of 16-18" wheels and tires.
At least a stock brake upgrade using brembo rotors. Check heavythrottle.com, they have a full brake upgrade that has brembo rotors and 300zx calipers, thats gonna be the most effiecient upgrade for the money.
And of course the transmission, new clutch and flywheel. Also, get your self a Limited Slip Differential.
nice way to spend 14,000, now all ya gotta do is save up for the labor charges to put all this s*** together, hahaha, have fun.