I am still debating whether or not to get the rotors that are drilled or not just because of the strength and warping that may occur.
Don't bother with drilled rotors. There's no reason to drill rotors anymore. When they used to do it, it used to be primarily for weight savings (take a look at a swiss cheese Formula Ford rotor sometime and you'll see what I mean) Cheapo blanks are plenty good enough. People even track (other, more suitable cars) with cheapo blank rotors.
Just go on rockauto and get a set of decent rotors. Centric standard rotors are like $25ea front, $16-20ea rear. Stoptech street pads are like $84/set. OEM grade Akebono ceramics are about $100/set. There are cheaper options too, like power stop ceramics, etc. They have a powerstop rotor and pad kit, front and rear for like $170. Clean the machine oil off the hat portion of the rotor and hit it with some BBQ grill paint to prevent it rusting (the centric premium rotors have a coating on the non-friction surfaces). You don't have to mask it, just don't directly spray the friction surface. The overspray will come off the first time you apply the brakes.
I wonder why I haven't had to replace the brakes at all yet. I've put 35K on mine and the brakes are just fine. Is it possible you guys have bad wheel bearings? That would cause excessive pad wear and rotor issues. Might be worth a look...