Actually, some of the 3" and 4" tangbands I'm looking at have pretty nice response in the upper range. Have you seen this site?
http://www.zaphaudio.com/ Don't get this confused with 3"/4"coaxials or midranges, I'll be using fullrange speakers.
I'm planning pairing them with some of the Peerless SLS6.5's in the doors, probably bandpassed at ~65hz and ~300hz, and having the fullranges take over from 300hz up (I'll set the slopes by ear). Compared to small format tweeters, full ranges usually are more directional, so bouncing off the windshield would be better suited to them compared to tweets. Plus, I'll be able to pull the sound stage higher up compared to tweeters playing from 2500hz up in the dash or in the sail panels, and the mids handling midbass and midrange duties.
I'll be running the set-up fully active with a 3sixty.2, so I'll be able to use time alignment to my advantage as well.
Also, I'm don't have the Bose system, just the standard headunit and speakers, but I'll definitely be taking out the rear deck speakers.
Here's the 3" drivers I was considering, if I can't fit the 4's in:
http://www.diymobileaudio.com/....html
http://www.parts-express.com/p...4-844