i too went with the ACT kit, totally worth every bit of the money. ^^^ that PP, but i used the organic disc for 300 or so lb.ft.
But if you, really honestly, did not want to continue having the clutch slipping, then you should have ensured yourself you wouldn't need to do it again. I had the flywheel resurfaced and stepped. I'm almost certain when i did mine the factory spec i had them do was .004. no idea if it makes a difference thats very minscule but i thought paying them 40 bucks was better than having to prematurely slipp my new disc a few times and then have to redo it again, the entire job, while being without a car. id have been pissed.
im also going to just add here that i think you should stop driving, throw away anythingf you have that is from spec and uuse the pressure plate from your work friends kit. the bolts dont line up because you didnt open them up so they could, haha if youd have searched google for the specific problem, well you know...

hope it helps